I was recently asked to write down some of my successes in
life and I really struggled to do so. Anything I came up with, didn’t feel particularly
genuine. I’ve thought about this a good deal and have concluded that (for
some reason) I have a hard time bragging about myself - even when asked to do
so.
One thing that I recognize is goals and success are related to me. For a person who doesn’t like to toot her own horn (and I do
realize the importance of feeling and knowing that you are good at something),
I’ve decided that setting and reaching a goal could be good way to clearly identify
a success and feel comfortable acknowledging it.
On a side, yet related note, I met a pretty remarkable woman
one time at a running club here in Atlanta. During our long run she shared a
few glimpses into how she conducts her life. It struck me as hard core, very
cool, and incredibly disciplined. Basically, she runs her personal life like a
business with a set ‘business plan’. She establishes all of her goals for the
year and then actually reviews where she is at each quarter. I believe she even
sets aside days for meetings with herself. There’s a ton more to it than this
but the whole process seemed very well thought out. It was also quite clear
that she makes a concerted effort not to neglect herself which I’m sure would be
super easy to do when you consider that she heads up International Human
Resources at a large company AND has two young boys at home.
As part of an effort to work on some things about myself, I’ll
be setting some goals (racing and non-racing related) and to get started – I’m
going to set a goal right now.
This weekend I will be racing the Athleta IronGirl Lake
Lanier Sprint Triathlon for the second consecutive year. While I have not trained like I did last year, here are my
goals:
- Have fun and finish
- Match (or beat) last year’s time
- Be in the top 15% (not a great goal because this is somewhat out of my control…)
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